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Ask about the Story of “Things”
Older folks enjoy talking about the past. Grandpa’s are known for their story telling abilities! They are happy to share information about the “things” in their family. We all have items that are sentimental to us for one reason or another. These things could be photographs, books, mementos or souvenirs, a grandmother’s wedding dress or hand-made quilt, or a great-grandfather’s pocket watch. No matter how expensive an item was at the time it was new, or the value it has now, these objects can bring back memories of occasions or events, give clues to the personality of the owner, or reflect the customs and culture of the era. They represent past activities, feelings, history, and concrete information about the family.
Preserving family “Things”
Family heirlooms are actual tangible “things” which will deteriorate over time. Give careful attention to storing, moving, or attempting to refurbish or restore these valuable treasures of the past. Researching the recommendations of professionals and adhering to their advice is using good judgement. You don’t want your keepsake to end up in the recycle bin because of neglect or improper handling. The University of Kentucky wrote a fantastic article addressing the processes for preserving different types of materials. The article: “Caring for your Textile Heirlooms” addresses the types of damage: humidity, high temperatures, abrasions, insects, rodents and such. Examples of cleaning, types of repairs that can be made, proper storage techniques, and other important information can be found in this article. Family “things” deserve proper care and depend on the next person in line to give them legs to travel on in time.
Examples of “Things”
This little pitcher belonged to my Great-grandmother. It was passed down from my Grandad, my mom, and now to me. I know this because the notes inside are in their own handwriting, telling me so. Having this little pitcher is not as special, though, as knowing that my Grandad (Pop) was thinking of me when he wrote this note. It’s probably time for me to write my own note designating the next one to continue caring for this special family memento.
Where did they get that old clock on the mantle? Why are you so attached to that silly plate? The clock belonged to Dad’s grandmother, or the plate was used in the restaurant my grandparents owned. You may never know if you don’t ask.
- Spending time together strengthens family connections Let the older generations in your family tell you about their “things”. Both of you will enjoy the time spent together and may discover a desire to know even more about your family and it’s past.
- Knowing about the history of things creates a desire to preserve them for the generations following in your footsteps. Research proper methods of preservation for those important “things” to ensure they are still around for years to come.
- Pass along the information you learn from the older family to the younger members. Give them an opportunity to appreciate their past.
- Value this family time, ask questions, listen to stories, and discover those special “things” that carry important memories and are considered treasures to your family.
Knowing the history and stories of family “things” creates a link to the past, and a bridge to the future. When family members are no longer able or available to share, stories and information are lost What can you do to make this happen in your family? Don’t procrastinate! Family “things” will come alive when you know the story!